Sex During Pregnancy

There are varied opinions surrounding the issue of sex during pregnancy. While some people believe that it is wrong, some think that it is right while some people find their place in-between the two extremes.
Those who say it is wrong have their reasons.  Some of them are that sex during pregnancy is unsafe, the baby might be hurt, the baby might see them, it could cause miscarriage or that it is "unclean".
Those who say it is right affirm that it makes delivery easier, reduces infidelity, creates strong bond between the couple and so on.

But sex during pregnancy is not wrong and it is not entirely unsafe. In fact, there have been reports of women who claim to enjoy sex more during pregnancy. The only thing is that it should be done with care and you should consult your doctor before you make love to your wife while she's pregnant. This especially is important if you've had case(s) of miscarriage in the past.

Here in my part of the world, it is conventionally accepted that there should be no sex during the first three months of the pregnancy. The belief is that it could cause the pregnancy to come down ("come down" is the term for miscarriage in my language).

Although I heard that it is medically safe to have sex during pregnancy but I think it is better to avoid it in the first trimester. I didn't do it during that period to be on the safe side.
Any time you are in the mood, make the move. Any time we want to do it, we usually use these three sex positions and I recommend them.

The dog style
In this style, woman kneels (Sorry. Like a dog) and you do it from the rear. This position is good because the penetration is not deep enough to cause any discomfort and some people enjoy it. The only thing to bear in mind is that since the clitoris is an important part in sexual enjoyment for the woman, her spouse should fondle it with his hand in order to take the woman to the peak of enjoyment.
The Back-to-Back Position

Here, the woman lies on the bed and her spouse lies behind her with his belly to her back. He then enters her from the back. Like in the Dog style, the man should not forget the other parts of the woman's body especially her clit.

Sitting position
The man sits on a chair (an armless one if it is available) and his wife sits on top of him. In this position, she controls the depth of the penetration so the man could concentrate on the other parts of the body.
And for the baby, you don't have to worry. You should know that if my woman does not feel any pain while we are making love, it means that you are not hurting the baby.

You see, sex during pregnancy is not a taboo per se. You can enjoy it without restrictions. In fact, you can use any position to do it as long as it is convenient for you and it is not painful but it is always advisable to see medical experts for advice.

My wife is big and still bigging

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Some time ago, I expressed concern over my wife’s loss of appetite. It got so bad that I was 
scared but all that have changed now.

As of today, my wife can be described succinctly as a consumer. She eats like a caterpillar and
she has her increased weight to show for it. She has
gained so much weight that she looks round. She is big
and still getting bigger (she’s still bigging!). A good thing is that the
breasts are not left out of it. They are bigger, rounder, firmer and very
tempting. If you’re like me, you’ll understand that keeping your eyes (and
hands) off these lovely twins is a big task.

When I talked to a nurse
about the weight gain and the enlarged breasts, she
said it is normal. Increase in body size and weight are both part of what to
expect during pregnancy. In fact, they are good signs. The only thing that would
have given any cause for alarm is if the legs were swollen because if this is
noticed, it may be a sign of a medical condition. Any
way, it was relieving to note that my wife doesn’t have swollen legs.

Something my wife said
the doctor asked was whether there has been or there is a diabetic patient in
her family. I don’t know why he asked her but I am happy to know that the answer
to the question was “no, there wasn’t and there isn’t”. You may need to ask your
wife the same question or better still, consult your doctor.

Well, it is joyous to say
that there’s no problem but the fact that my wife is now big and still bigging
is there. She’s no more the smallish girl that I married.

P.S.   I noticed that her tummy is hard. I
don’t know if it’s alright but whatever I find out about it you’ll get to know
about it as soon as possible